I wanted to write and encourage you in this season of what seems like endless Holidays and reasons to be “put on happy”, no matter what may be going on in your life. This time of year we are all inundated with hundreds of ads from salesmen telling us “if you just had this one […]
Seems like a strange title I know. I can hear you saying now “what you do mean ACTIVELY love my wife? I LOVE my wife, isn’t that enough?” Maybe not. Ok, here’s what I mean. So I’ve been married a little over 12 years now. I still adore my wife, and am thankful […]
This blog has always been about me sharing with you things that I’ve learned the hard way, in turn hoping you can avoid the same pitfall that I so elegantly ran right through. Call me the “test pilot” for Husbands. Lord knows I have done my share of stupid over the past ten years […]
With the movie coming up on Valentine’s Day, I’m reposting this from a few years ago…. Note: While this is a topic that mostly effects wives, I feel that it can have a very negative impact on a marriage, and leave the husband not only confused, but wondering how he can measure up to what […]
It’s interesting to me how much I have learned over the past 10 years with my wife Valerie. Things I have learned about her, about marriage, and about myself. I also find it interesting (and slightly amusing) how LONG it has taken me to figure out some things. And that brings me to the […]
Remember when you first got married, and it was just the two of you? I know, it’s hard to remember the days without most of the distractions that come with kids and raising a family, but try. Remember how you were able to put time into your marriage pretty easily? I mean, you still […]
Ok, I know a lot of wives read my blog, even though it’s geared toward the husbands. I often wondered why, until I had several female readers comment and send me emails saying “I love your blog, because it helps me understand what’s going on in my husband’s brain.” (As if we’re really that […]
Re-posted from a previous post….. Yes, I’m going where few men dare to go. Believe me, it took some time to talk myself into doing this post, but here I am. Now why would a guy do a blog post about a woman’s period? Well, because if you’re married (and I’m assuming you are […]
If there’s one thing I hate, it’s being forced by someone to do something. Not because It’s from my heart, but because that’s what you’re “supposed to do”. Maybe that’s why I’ve never been a big fan of Valentines day. Now don’t get me wrong, I think it’s a GREAT idea to be romantic […]
Not satisfied with your current sex life? You’re not alone. Here are a few things that don’t help it get any better. Kids in your bed. – Oh I can hear the comments now, but before you try to figure out where I live, so you can slash my tires, hear me out. If you […]
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